Pain is a Precious Gift

Times are tough right now and one of the most important things we can do right now is offer support to those around us. And one of the things I am most passionate about is helping others.

I am here to address an issue happening among us. There is an enormous amount of individuals feeling lonely, sad, hopeless, worthless. If you have experienced any of those feelings, you know what I mean.

It’s like going through life with a backpack full of heavy rocks that make every step feel exhausting. And what you would like is to take the backpack off your back, drop it on the ground, and continue your journey feeling light and free. 

And that is why I am here. Because I believe I have a solution. 

A number of years ago, I found myself raising my 2 children alone while working as a lifeguard. I realized my passion for human development while raising my 2 children. I felt driven, guided, to return to school to position myself to help others. Now, after years of working with individuals in their deepest, most painful spaces – here is what I have found.

  1. Every person I have worked with, at a deep, subconscious level, has a sense that they have value.
  2. We all grow up with pain, such as mistrust, shame, guilt, or feeling worthless.
  3. No one is to blame for your pain. Blame takes away ownership of your own personal growth and development.
  4. Emotional pain is a gift. It is a voice, a cry from deep within you, to accept the invitation to connect to yourself and feel strength, confidence, and serenity. 

And that is what I am here for. To support you on that journey so you can finally feel strength and confidence. I have been through the deep dark trenches of life and I know Emotion! It all comes down to the nervous system. And knowing all about emotion and the nervous system is my passion.

Check out my website,, or on other social media platforms to see how to work with me or to access more content about being Emotionally Grounded.

My facebook group, Emotionally Grounded with Brandys, is a supportive community for aspiring individuals who want to become Emotionally Grounded.

My YouTube channel, Brandys, is dedicated to understanding emotion and becoming Emotionally Grounded.

I am so excited to bring this message to you and to share my passion of helping you on this beautiful and exciting journey of personal growth. 

I am here for YOU!